Dreams are fascinating and mysterious. They can take us to different universes and scenarios, making us experience things that we never thought possible.
One of the most common dream experiences is being kissed by someone, and it feels real. Its meaning and why it feels so real are quite puzzling.
Since this is such a common occurrence, we’ve decided to take a look into it and what’s behind it all.
Key Takeaways:
- Dreams about being kissed may reflect unexpressed romantic feelings towards someone, highlighting the subconscious mind’s role in processing these emotions.
- Interpretation usually suggests a deep desire for connection, indicating loneliness or the search for a meaningful relationship.
- Such dreams could express a longing for closer emotional or physical bonds.
What Does it Mean When Someone Kisses You in Your Dream?
There are several interpretations of a dream when someone is kissing you. Here are some of the most common ones:
Yearning for Love and Affection
A dream about being kissed by someone or having intercourse with someone could indicate a deep desire for love and affection. This dream could signify that you are longing for a connection with someone, whether it’s a romantic partner or a friend. You may be feeling lonely and are searching for a meaningful relationship.
It must be said that this is the most common interpretation, regardless of the interpreter.
Hidden Desires or Unresolved Feelings
Another interpretation is that it represents hidden desires or unresolved feelings that you may have towards someone. Perhaps there is someone in your life you have romantic feelings for but are unable to express them. This dream could be a manifestation of those feelings.
While having control over emotions is possible, it must be said that they will simply waver of sometimes, and dreams are a perfect moment for this to happen.
“Dreams speak in a symbolic language, not a literal language.” – Lauri Loewenberg in her talk with Vogue
A Need for Intimacy or Physical Connection
Dreams of being kissed by someone could also indicate a need for intimacy or physical connection. Maybe you are feeling emotionally distant from your partner, and this dream is a way of expressing that you want to feel closer to them.
Or, perhaps you are craving physical touch and affection from someone in your life.
There are numerous stories where this is exactly what happens and the subconscious simply seeks resolution.
Why Does It Feel So Real?
There are different reasons why dreams like this can be so real. It can be any of the following:
The Brain Cannot Differentiate Between Real and Imaginary
When we dream, our brains are active and working just as they would when we are awake. The brain is unable to differentiate between real and imaginary experiences, which is why dreams can feel so real.
In fact, some studies have shown that the same parts of the brain that are active during real-life experiences are also active during dreams.
A study published in Nature Neuroscience reports of dream experience in both REM and NREM sleep are associated with local decreases in low-frequency activity in posterior cortical regions.
Dreams are a Product of Our Subconscious Mind
Dreams are often a reflection of our subconscious mind. They can represent our deepest desires, fears, and unresolved emotions.
When we dream about being kissed by someone, it could be a manifestation of our subconscious thoughts and feelings.
“Dreams may serve as a simulation of reality, helping to cope with dysphoric elements and traumatic memories.” – Front Psychol report, 2019
Dreams Can Be Enhanced by Our Emotional State
Our emotional state can also play a role in the intensity and vividness of our dreams. When we are experiencing strong emotions, such as love or longing, it can make our dreams feel more real and impactful.
In a study by Sapienza University of Rome, we can see that dream experience (DE) is closely linked to emotional processes and the human inner world.
Furthermore, the study suggests that processes regulating dreaming and emotional salience share similar neural substrates with emotions during wakefulness.
